Ok- I have one complaint about pregnancy thus far: The constant comments (and looks). It's like all of the sudden it's not rude for people to give you daily assessments of their appraisal of your progression and size in pregnancy. Strangers, co-workers, friends ... words like "big," "small," "tiny," "butt," and other descriptors come in to play on a daily basis. Most of the comments are really nice, like you look great or you don't look pregnant from the back... things you like to hear. But then- there are the (usually not in good shape themselves) people who feel that it's completely appropriate to comment on the size of your rear or let you know they find you "huge."
Then the looks. I know I did this too. We are curious about things that are different or for me, it was just a sense of longing when I was looking at other pregnant bellies. But it's hard not to feel like you're constantly getting sized up. My favorite are the muscle guys in the gym who are perplexed as to why this person with the basketball stomach is lifting weights. Just wait until I'm 9 months!
I promise I'm not being overly sensitive because I know that I am healthy and am totally happy with the way my body has responded to this pregnancy. It just amazes me that things that were once taboo are now socially acceptable, at a time in a woman's life where she probably is feeling more emotional and less attractive than normal.
So- from now on, I will keep my own experience in mind when addressing my pregnant friends (or strangers).
29 1/2 weeks down, just a few more to go!
Heidi
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
March Updates
March is here, but not the nice spring weather (yet) that goes with it. I'm 28 weeks, so it's officially the third trimester. Nothing really to complain about. A little heartburn here and there, but I'm sleeping well and going to the gym 4 times a week.
Josh and I had a formal with his school this past weekend (in case you're not on Facebook, you might not have seen the pictures) and had a good time, though no drinking on my part make the $80 a person ticket price hard to swallow.
Our good friend Micheal Donegan had a conference in Chicago, so he stayed with us for three nights and we really enjoyed having him. We introduced him to the "joys" of public transportation and to our favorite burger place, Epic Burger.
It feels like we're "counting down" to a lot of things around here: baby, Josh graduation, moving, etc. Lots of life changes ahead, so we're just taking it one day at a time.
Heidi
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